Worried about someone?
This tool helps you understand what you're seeing and guides you on what to do next. It takes about 3 minutes.
Your answers are anonymous. Nothing is stored that could identify you or the person you're concerned about.
Observable concern level
Score: /100 · Risk factors:
This needs attention now
The answers you've given indicate a high level of concern. You don't need to handle this alone.
Significant concern
What you're describing suggests he may be struggling more than he's showing. Trust what you're seeing.
This week: Find a quiet moment and ask directly - "Are you okay? I've noticed some things and I'm worried."
Don't: Don't wait for the "right moment" - there isn't one. Don't try to fix it. Just listen.
Moderate concern
There are some signs worth paying attention to. Keep watching, stay available, and consider opening a conversation when the time feels right.
Low concern right now
Based on what you've described, things seem relatively stable. The fact that you're checking shows you care. Stay present and keep the door open.
Where the concern sits
Guidance for you as
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